Coming back from an affair can be one of the toughest challenges for a couple.
The first video speaks to the partner who has been hurt, the video covers:
- The two aspects that define infidelity
- Infidelity as a trauma
- How infidelity is like grief
- How long the healing process typically takes
The second video speaks to the involved partner (the one who had the affair), the video covers:
- The two most important characteristics the involved partner needs to move into repair
- The built-in asymmetry between the hurt and involved partner
- Being sorry for the infidelity vs. being sorry for the damage
- Moving out of shame and into remorse
