Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship


NEW Relational Parenting Course

Learn how to set limits with compassion, effectively build your child’s self-esteem, and form a robust parental team in this 5-session online course from leading family therapist Terry Real.

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Introducing: The Relationship Grid Assessment by Terry Real. End the Dysfunctional Cycles in Your Relationship and Stay in Love for Life.

Relating better to your partner starts with understanding them. Get a quick snapshot of how healthy your boundaries and self-esteem are—especially during conflict—in this free assessment.

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The Power of Fierce Intimacy

“Nothing is more important in our lives than our relationships. A great relationship boosts your immune system, opens your heart, and keeps you vital and creative.”


STAYING IN LOVE: The Art of Fierce Intimacy Transform Your Relationship with Practical Skills in this popular Coursewith Terry Real

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Guest Appearances

Rowing to Nowhere: When is Enough Enough?

Like most therapists, I love it when couples step into new beginnings. Watching a partner move into accountability for the first time, or become vulnerable as never before, or demonstrate empathy where there’d been none—such moments make my day. But what about couples...

Joining Through the Truth

Most of us were trained to believe that we needed to be extremely careful when helping clients face the really difficult truths in their lives—especially their own obnoxious, selfish, or self-defeating actions. Better to err on the side of going slow, creating safety,...

Upcoming Events

Relationship Bootcamp

Registration for ONLINE & IN-PERSON Relationship Bootcamp Workshops is now OPEN!     

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The Couples Experiential Journey

8 Sessions – 1 Couple

January – April, 2023 

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