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The Relationship Grid Assessment

End the Dysfunctional Cycles in Your Relationship and Stay in Love for Life

Relating better to your partner starts with understanding yourself and them.

Get a quick snapshot of how healthy your boundaries and self-esteem are—especially during conflict—in this free assessment.

Which of the 4 quadrants are you most likely to fall into when triggered?

Find a Therapist

Search our directory to find a certified Relational Life Therapy practitioner, trained by Terry Real.

My Books on Relationships and Working with Couples

  • My latest book: “Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship” – Buy here


  • Best For Men: I Don’t Want to Talk About: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression Buy here


  • Relational Skills: The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work – Buy here


  • Rebuild Intimacy: How Can I Get Through to You?: Reconnecting Men and Women – Buy here

Building Better Boundaries: How To Stay Connected and Protected in Your Relationships

Join Terry Real for a new LIVE course and learn the skills and strategies that keep you protected and connected for more fulfilling relationships.