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Love, Trauma, and Relationships

with Terry Real and Thomas Hübl

Learn the practices to heal past wounds and more deeply connect with yourself, your partner, and the world at large. 

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Get instant, lifetime access to
two special course collaborations

Love, Trauma, and Relationships with Terry Real and Thomas Hübl

Learn the practices to heal past wounds and more deeply connect with yourself, your partner, and the world at large. 
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“ The deepest listening is presence, is consciousness itself. It is space, an open heart, compassion and a deep receiving of someone.”
Thomas Hübl
“ Learning to listen relationally, listen with cool heads and clear boundaries, listen with the quietness of the heart and the gentleness of the body, means having a self so developed it can afford to yield. ”
Terry Real

Our Intimate Relationships Provide the Greatest Opportunity for Transformation… 

Yet few of us have the tools to consciously deepen our love, work with trauma, and use our close relationships as a crucible for healing.
That’s why you’re invited to a special teaching collaboration, during which you’ll explore these topics and more.

Themes for Here’s What You’ll Learn

Dealing with Wounds Within Our Significant Relationships

Healing Our Legacies: Collective and Multigenerational Trauma

Dissolving Fear into Vulnerability and Intimacy

Eros and Embodiment in Relationships

Growth Practices for Sacred Relationships

Many of us crave more connection and more intimacy in our relationships, but we don’t know how to create it.

And why would we? It’s something we’ve never been taught.

We live in a world that champions competition not collaboration, the individual not community.

And right now, we’re living in a world that’s more disconnected than ever, experiencing significant trauma and hurt.

This creates a pressure cooker environment in which pain radiates into our day-to-day lives and relationships, even though we may not consciously be aware of it.

We’re all desperately trying to seek comfort and avoid pain… but in doing so, we’re not living fully with ourselves, our loved ones, or the world at large.

Instead, we repeat the same patterns from the past. It feels like it’s beyond our
control—as though some hidden part of ourselves has taken the reins.


This training will help you connect with that hidden part of yourself, understand it, nurture it, and ultimately stand it down so you can break down the barriers to true intimacy.

Living—and loving—fully means learning to embrace discomfort so that we can cultivate better, healthier ways of relating.

And that’s at every level, whether learning to sit through the initial discomfort of a meditation to open up to greater spirituality or finally voicing our wants to our partner.

Our relationships can be a crucible for profound inner change. Our relationships can be a safe place where we release traumas that in the past have blocked intimacy, joy, and peace.

By changing the way you relate to others, you can learn to heal the wounds of the past.

But in order to do that, you need a shared framework and mutual understanding of how to support one another and the planet as a whole.

As you move through these online teachings, you’ll watch Terry and Thomas work—combining methods from psychotherapy and spiritual practices—with individuals and couples who consciously choose to bring their relationships to the next level.
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True Liberation is Freedom From Our Own Automatic Responses

Learn the skills and practices to achieve that freedom in Love, Trauma, and Relationships.
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“ We design the world through the relationships that we live, through the relational qualities that we pass on to the next generation. So practicing in our intimate relationships is actually a rewriting of the past. We can heal, we can integrate, and through that we can also change the world. ”
Thomas Hübl

Working with Trauma in Our Intimate Relationships

We often bring wounds and injuries into our relationships that trigger trauma…

The previous traumas we carry are like scars that can prevent us from getting closer to the ones we love and care for in our lives.

Often, the defenses and adaptive strategies that have served to protect us in the past keep us from closeness in the present.

When we become conscious of the trauma we hold and how it affects our relationships, then we can work with it as an ally for personal growth rather than something that creates a barrier to intimacy and love.

In fact, a close loving relationship can provide an optimal container for deep healing and transformation.

Our partners can reflect back to us what they see and hold space for us moment to moment.

There are many types of trauma that we can hold, including family of origin and intergenerational trauma, relational trauma, and collective trauma.

Each type of trauma plays a role in how we relate to our partners and can pull us further apart or bring us closer, depending on how we handle it.

Through 20+ hours of teachings, Thomas and Terry will guide you deep into an exploration of the possibilities of transformation as you build frameworks, learn from work with couples and individuals, and learn practices you can use in your
relationship immediately.

You will come out with a deeper understanding of how trauma affects relationships and how to use it for transformation instead of triggering.

Clearing the Obstacles to Love and Intimacy

Often, it’s not the lack of desire to be close to another that prevents intimacy; rather, it’s the obstacles, current or historical, that block connection and love.

Looking at our wounding and trauma – and that of our partner – is key for couples who seek deeply fulfilling and extraordinary relationships.

It’s in our early relationships that trauma occurs…

And it’s through our current relationships that we have an opportunity to heal.

We can move from repetition of the same old patterns to transformation, with each partner evolving inside the relationship.

You'll embark on that journey in this course. These are the topics you'll explore:

  • How to shift from individual consciousness to relational consciousness.
  • Moving from a 2-dimensional into 3-dimensional embodied consciousness that allows witnessing.
  • How to stay open when your early wounds are brought to the surface, rather than becoming defensive.
  • What it means to feel the trauma of your partner in your body and how to work with it together.
  • How our body stores fear in the nervous system and what this means in relationships.
  • The importance of co-regulation as a tool with our partner.
  • What it means to transform our legacies in relationship & the different aspects we face when we choose to do the work.

You’ll also learn from Thomas and Terry’s process work with individuals and couples facing struggles similar to yours.

These teachings will provide you with a new relational map, tools, and practices that you can use to strengthen your work and significant partnerships.

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Here’s What You’ll Learn in Each Course

Love, Trauma, and Healing

10+ Hours

Each module includes a lecture, teaching, and exercises from Thomas Hübl and Terry Real.

Module 1

Dealing with Wounds in our Significant Relationships

In this module some of the topics you’ll explore include:

  • How to deal with wounds and injuries in relationship.
  • How to resolve the outward expressions (affairs, aggression).
  • How the present situation relates to former wounding.
  • Looking at specific and related wounds such as marital & family of origin
  • Understanding the awareness and repair process.
Module 2

Healing Our Legacies: Collective Trauma in Relationships

In this module some of the topics you’ll explore include:

  • What it means to transform ourselves in relationship to heal our legacy.
  • How we are born into a field of Collective Trauma.
  • Creating a safe pace and opening a resonate field as a container for deeper work.
  • How collective trauma gets activated inside relationships.
  • Guided practices for deep healing.

Module 3

Healing Our Legacies Part II: Ancestral and Intergenerational Trauma in Relationships

In this module some of the topics you’ll explore include:

  • How generations replay all types of trauma such as disempowerment, sexual trauma, and gender violence.
  • How to reverse and stop the chain.
  • How culture is transmitted through families.
  • Becoming aware of standard escape routes.

Module 4

Dissolving Fear into Vulnerability and Intimacy

In this module some of the topics you’ll explore include:

  • How co-regulation works in relationships to either open or close the body and nervous system.
  • Recognizing how we go numb because of latent fear.
  • Overcoming the fear of aggression and conflict.
  • How attachment model and individuation loop takes us back to 2D consciousness and ‘Othering.’
  • Shifting from ‘Me and You’ to ‘Us’ consciousness to access a different level of wisdom that is inclusive and relational.

Module 5

Growth Practices for Sacred Relationships

In this module some of the topics you’ll explore include:

  • How to practically move from repetition to transformation.
  • How to change negative relational patterns.
  • Using our relationships for healing, growth and spiritual work.
  • Accessing the evolutionary relationship.
  • The ‘Resolution Wheel.’

Evolutionary Relationships

12+ Hours

You will receive 12 hours of further training from Terry and Thomas to support your healing and create rituals for cherishing your connection. 

MODULE 1:

Waking Up Through Relationships

Learn what an evolutionary relationship is, discover your automatic responses to stress, and learn tools for self-regulation.

MODULE 2:

Working Through Trauma & Moving Through Blockages

Understand the traumas behind your automatic responses and how to move from your Adaptive Child into your Wise Adult. 

MODULE 3:

Multi-generational Healing with Your Partner

Explore how trauma rolls from generation to generation and also how healing can be shared across generations. 

MODULE 4:

The Evolutionary Relationship Tool Kit

Discover the toolkit for evolutionary relationships as you learn skills to improve communication and grow together within your partnership.

MODULE 5:

Bringing Ritual into Your Relationships

Learn what rituals bring to your relationship and how to create space for acts of cherishing to nurture your connection. 

MODULE 6:

Eros and Embodiment in Relationship

Explore the physical expression of evolutionary relationships, including sexual boundaries and creating a safe space to explore your desires. 

MODULE 7:

The Mystical Marriage

Explore the continual evolution of your relationship and spiritual practices to support your growth. 
“Through the mechanism of carried shame and carried feelings, the unresolved pain of previous generations operates in families like an emotional debt. We either face it or we leverage our children with it.”
Terry Real

Here’s Everything You Get Inside this Special Course Collaboration

Five 2-hour Modules on Love, Trauma, & Healing from Terry & Thomas

[Over 10 Hours of Teachings]
Each module includes teaching & Q&A from the audience. You’ll learn concepts, frameworks, techniques, practical exercises, and explore case studies to guide your healing path.

7 x 90-MINUTE Modules on Evolutionary Relationships

[Over 12 Hours of Teachings]
This 7-session course includes over 12 hours of trainings and teachings with Thomas and Terry to help you create mystical partnerships for healing and waking up. 

PLUS You’ll Receive these 2 Special Training Bonuses…

Bonus #1

The Healing Power of Presence with Thomas Hübl

In this video training, Thomas covers the Five Principles of Conscious Healing: Presence, Attunement, Subtle Capacity, Coherence, and Access to Higher Intelligence.

Bonus #2

Attachment in Couples Therapy – Presence, Attunement, Resonance, and Trust with Terry Real, Dan Siegel, and Juliane Taylor Shore

In this training, Terry Real and Juliane Taylor Shore speak with Dan Siegel about the four inner mental experiences that attunement enables an individual to resonate with. Dan also outlines how the state of receptivity emerges with trust.
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Meet Your Teachers

Thomas Hübl

Thomas Hübl, PhD, is a renowned teacher, author, and international facilitator who works within the complexity of systems and cultural change, integrating the core insights of the great wisdom traditions and mysticism with the discoveries of science. Since the early 2000s, he has led large-scale events and courses on the healing of collective trauma.

He is the author of Attuned: Practicing Interdependence to Heal Our Trauma—and Our World and Healing Collective Trauma: A Process for Integrating Our Intergenerational and Cultural Wounds. He has served as an advisor and guest faculty for universities and organizations, as a coach for CEOs and organizational leaders, and is currently a visiting scholar at the Wyss Institute at Harvard University.
 

Terry Real

Terry Real, LICSW, is an internationally recognized family therapist, bestselling author, and sought-after speaker. 

A former senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts and a retired Clinical Fellow of the Meadows Institute in Arizona, Terry is renowned for his ability to save couples on the brink of divorce using the progressive approach he created, Relational Life Therapy. RLT equips people with the powerful relational skills they need to cultivate meaningful connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole.

Via his esteemed training school, the Relational Life Institute, Terry has trained thousands of mental health practitioners in his RLT method to date. 

His original insights on couples therapy, relationships, and men’s issues have been featured in outlets from Oprah and Vogue to The Today Show and CNN.

His latest book is the New York Times bestseller, US: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship.  

Here’s What People Are Saying

“Thomas and Terry together are profound resources for relationship healing on so many levels.

My husband and I spent hours in conversation each week around the course material, which laid a firm foundation and much broader perspective for exploring our difficult relationship issues.

We will return to the principles over and over as we work to evolve ourselves and our marriage.”

Marilyn S.

“I never liked or understood the word “trauma” as it had been used by so many erroneously. This course helped me understand that although I had never been physically abused in childhood, I had experienced neglect, causing me to feel alone and unsafe.

I am so grateful to have been a part of the course – I had a huge breakthrough with memories surfacing that had been long forgotten and stored in the unconscious.”

Sara R.

“I appreciated how Terry and Thomas integrated their respective approaches to relational work. I was moved by their compassion and focus with online participants. It was beautiful to experience. As a relational therapist I feel more confident and clear about my own skills as I begin to learn and integrate their generous wisdom.”

Martha Y.

“Both Thomas and Terry provided very specific, concrete, concise information about the various essential elements of a successful long-term relationship. I especially appreciated that they included and emphasized the specific ways in which previous trauma plays into a couple’s interactions and how to get back out of those precarious, awkward moments. The historical family trauma was also good to include, as I don’t find many people giving credit to those experiences and the long-term effects. My husband and I watched together and had some excellent discussions as a result. Very helpful!”

Sandra

“I appreciated the beautiful, almost seamless way Thomas and Terry worked together and with those who came on live. They both brought their expertise into each interaction and you could see how moved each person was.”

Melanie

“The blend of Terry Real’s beautifully developed work with couples, and Thomas Hübl’s clear descriptions of body-mind energetics, combined with the ‘bigger picture’ view of trauma in relationships was so beneficial.”

Siobhan

Love, Trauma, and Relationships Program Summary

1) Love, Trauma, and Healing: 5 x 2-HOUR modules

[ 10+ Hours ]
5 x 2-HOUR modules to help you break through barriers to intimacy, including guided exercises with Terry Real and Thomas Hübl.

2) Evolutionary Relationships: 7 x 90-MINUTE modules

[ 12+ Hours ]
7 x 90-MINUTE modules of teachings and practices from Terry and Thomas to help you create mystical partnerships for healing and waking up.

PLUS the following Special Bonuses:

Bonus #1

The Healing Power of Presence with Thomas Hübl

Bonus #2

Attachment in Couples Therapy – Presence, Attunement, Resonance, and Trust with Terry Real, Dan Siegel, and Juliane Taylor Shore

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Our Promise and Guarantee

We’re confident you’ll be happy with Love, Trauma, and Relationships, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 14 days of your purchase and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.

Frequently Asked Questions

There are no relationship requirements for participation in this course! The teachings and explorations are applicable whether you are single or in any form of an intimate relationship. You may choose to do the course by yourself or with a partner, and either way will learn vital new tools to apply in your relationships.

Instantly! As soon as you enroll, you will receive your login details to the private learning platform via email, so you can get started today. 

Forever! All recordings, transcripts, and resources are yours to keep and watch back as many times as you wish.

We’re confident you’ll be happy with Love, Trauma, and Relationships, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 14 days of your purchase and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked. 

A limited number of scholarships are available for those with financial need. Please email us at support@terryreal.com with a brief outline of the following: your financial ability and how you plan to use your learnings from this course (250 words max).

This Love, Trauma, and Relationships course is a unique collaboration between Thomas and Terry. The modules include powerful process work with individuals and couples for a deeper experience. This new course also includes all of the material from the 2020 Evolutionary Relationships course – it’s essentially two courses in one! You can view the material at your convenience for years to come.

Unfortunately, no CEUs are available to purchase. However, the teachings shared are valuable for professionals in strengthening your healing work (for yourself and your clients), so we still encourage you to enroll.

Please reach out to our support team at support@terryreal.com. 

Enroll in Love, Trauma and Relationships Today

Only available until Thursday, August 8, 2024.

Choose an easy one-time payment or payment plan.

3 x Monthly Payments

$107

Pay in Full

$297
Our Promise and Guarantee

We’re confident you’ll be happy with Love, Trauma, and Relationships, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 14 days of your purchase and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.

Love, Trauma, and Relationships Program Summary

Here’s what you receive instant, lifetime access to:

1. Love, Trauma, and Healing: 5 TWO-HOUR online modules to help you break through barriers to intimacy, including guided exercises with Terry Real and Thomas Hübl. [10+hours]

2. Evolutionary Relationships: 7 modules of teachings and practices from Terry and Thomas to help you create mystical partnerships for healing and waking up. [12+hours]

PLUS the following Special Bonuses:

Bonus #1

The Healing Power of Presence with Thomas Hübl

Bonus #2

Attachment in Couples Therapy – Presence, Attunement, Resonance, and Trust with Terry Real, Dan Siegel, and Juliane Taylor Shore

Questions? please email support@terryreal.com