On-demand workshop with leading couples therapist Terry Real
Understand why, where, and how closeness has faded in your relationship – and clear action steps you can take right now to deepen your connection.
🗓️ Available now — learn at your own pace
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Whether you’re in a marriage that feels like roommates, whether you’re recognizing the resentment that is coming up in your relationship, Terry is asking us all to look at where you’re at as one giant opportunity.”
— Mel Robbins
#1 New York Times bestselling author and award-winning podcast host
Not an empty house or the lack of day-to-day contact we often associate with loneliness.
But that sense of feeling alone despite having someone to share a bed, a kitchen, a life with.
From the outside, maybe it all looks fine. Good, even. And yet there’s still some deeper part of you who doesn’t feel met. It’s almost like you’re watching your own relationship through a pane of glass.
And this kind of feeling is often so hard to explain. There’s no screaming, no betrayal, nothing you could point to and say that – that’s the problem. Just a gap between you that’s slowly getting bigger. And a growing sense that you may be carrying a discontent, a sadness, an anger that they have no idea is even there.
So you start to wonder if you’re the problem. Maybe you want too much. Maybe this is just what long-term love looks like and you should be grateful.
Perhaps you tried to bring it up once – dropped a hint, or said it straight out – and it turned into a fight, or a blank look, or a “what are you talking about, everything’s fine.” So you swallowed it. And told yourself to stop making a big deal out of nothing.
But it isn’t nothing. That ache is real. That longing to be known by the person who’s supposed to know you best – it’s one of the most human things there is.
Terry Real has spent more than 40 years helping couples facing this exact dilemma and the good news is: there is a way to drive connection deeper with your partner.
And in this self-paced workshop, he’ll show you how to get there.
More time together, more date nights, a weekend away together – just the two of us. And then wonder why we end up feeling even more alone.
The truth is, the closeness we’re missing isn’t the kind more contact can fix. But no one ever taught us that, so we’re left feeling the emptiness and assuming something’s wrong with us – or our partner.
Thankfully, there’s another way out of this. And in your 3 hours together, Terry Real will help you identify exactly where your connection went quiet, and how to bring it back to life.
Over 3 hours, Terry will walk you through the steps that take you from feeling alone to feeling close again:
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From understanding what intimacy really is to how you’re unconsciously blocking the very thing you’re seeking so you know how to move forward.
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Terry will guide you through the 5 domains of intimacy – helping you give an honest assessment of how well you and your partner are doing in each.
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From how to communicate effectively when you’re hurt, how to ask for more of what you want – and invite it from your partner – you’ll learn to close the gap between you.
We tend to imagine transformation as one dramatic moment that changes everything. But connection is something you do – and you can learn to do it better.
In this self-paced workshop with Terry Real, you’ll learn:
You don’t have to keep feeling lonely in your own relationship. You just need someone to show you the way back into connection. Let Terry be your guide.
“So liberating for me when I realize that I am the one who can change.
I loved Terry’s emphasis that you can only change yourself, not your partner. I now understand how my journey towards healthy self esteem has provided me with the perfect foundation to become a loving partner and to create the intimate relationship I have always desired.”
— Elaine Van Melle
You don’t have to keep feeling lonely in your own relationship. You just need someone to show you the way back into connection. Let Terry be your guide.
Available now: Terry will walk you through why connection fades and how to rebuild connection.
It’s yours to keep and return to whenever you need it.
get advice on your own situation in the workshop exercises.
you’re not the only one feeling this way, and there’s something quietly powerful about realizing that.
All of it for just $47.
Including many who were certain the closeness was gone for good.
He’s the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT) and the New York Times bestselling author of Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship. Known for his warm, no-nonsense honesty, Terry has spent his career teaching people the relational skills most of us were simply never taught – how to stop the patterns that quietly pull partners apart, and how to build the kind of deep, lasting connection we all long for.
In this workshop, he brings that four decades of experience straight to you.
Hear how Terry Real’s tools, workshops, and courses have helped others facing similar situations.
“A 100% turn around on how I see my relationship and how I speak to my husband.
I was never taught how to be in an equal relationship and really needed to be told words/phrases on how to speak – i.e. to request rather than demand or direct. That was a game changer and easy once I was given words to use – I would have stumbled for months or years!”
— Jan Moberg
on the Getting What You Want From Your Relationship course
“It resolved the incessant arguments that were happening in the marriage…
And showed us how to navigate them successfully from conflict, disharmony, repair and back to harmony.
– Ellen Burbano
on the Getting What You Want in Your Relationship course
“I am cherishing every moment of this journey.
I feel I’m getting to a point where “the dots” are beginning to connect for me. Attending a workshop like this and listening closely to Terry et al, made the connections between those dots stronger and clearer, and assisted me to validate my interpretation of all of my readings to date.
My journey to understand my SELF and heal, to become a better person, husband, father etc has been a long road. I am cherishing every moment of this journey.”
– Jim MacDougall
on the Unstuck workshop
“We really appreciate the experiences that renewed our marriage celebrating our 50th this year!
We participated in Terry Real’s recorded programs and an experiential workshop. We have since been more patient and understanding with ourselves, each other, and even with other people in our lives.
Terry’s distinct philosophy of gentle honesty and mutual respect is a gem. What we learned about ourselves and each other has changed the way we think and live as a couple every day.
You don’t have to keep feeling lonely in your own relationship. You just need someone to show you the way back into connection. Let Terry be your guide.
All of it for just $47.
This is a self-paced workshop available now, so you can begin whenever you are ready.
You receive lifetime access to the workshop and can work through it on your own schedule.
As soon as you sign up, you’ll receive an email with your access information and a link to the private learning platform.
Yes. The workshop is available now, with lifetime access through the private learning platform.
There are no guarantees. If you are committed to making your relationship work, this workshop will introduce you to relational skills that will help you reignite your connection and ease the sense of loneliness you’ve been carrying. However, this workshop is not intended as a substitute for therapy and if you feel you need extra support, we recommend searching our website directory for an RLT-certified practitioner in your area.
No – you can join with your camera off and say nothing for the whole workshop. Terry will do most of the talking as he shares insights and skills designed to help you. He will open up space for Q&A, and only those who wish to share their experiences or ask a question will be called on.
You can join alone or together. Terry will share from his four decades of experience working with couples and individuals grappling with the feeling of distance and disconnection in their relationship. It is of course wonderful if you’re able to join together but you will be able to apply the skills Terry will share to change how you show up in the relationship, which will invite your partner to also change how they respond.
This workshop is designed to help people in their own relationships and Q&A will be reserved for this rather than clinical application of the work. However, what you will explore will help you gain an understanding of how loneliness and distance can slowly grow between couples, and some of the steps to help them reconnect.
Please contact us at support@terryreal.com.
Here’s everything you get:
All of it for just $47.