Master Relational Life Therapy – the proven approach that helps even the most challenging couples reconnect







Traditional therapy often falls short in the couples room – power struggles, emotional shutdowns, trauma cycles, shame, and grandiosity demand more than theory. Relational Life Therapy (RLT), developed by world-renowned couples therapist Terry Real, is a practical, skills-based model designed for real relational dynamics. It gives you a clear structure to work with even the most challenging couples, tools to disarm resistance and shift blame, and a deep understanding of relational trauma to restore genuine intimacy.
This is not another framework to study – it’s a proven method to create real breakthroughs and lasting change…
Practitioners Trained
Countries Practicing RLT
Years of Clinical Impact
Our trainings will benefit any licensed therapist – or those on the path to licensure – including psychotherapists, psychologists, marriage counselors, and social workers. While RLT is primarily focused on couples therapy, prior experience working with couples is helpful but not required.
Not sure if RLT is right for your experience level?
Complete a short application, and our team will review your background and help you determine the most appropriate training path.
“My practice was already successful, but since RLT certification, it’s skyrocketed. I finally found a model that encourages me to be myself – open, authentic, and effective.”
Sig Taylor
MSW, RSW, RMFT
“The practical and positive approach of RLT has helped my clients see change almost immediately. By revealing past trauma and its impact… Read more
Clare Moss
MSW, RSW, Toronto
“RLT gave me the confidence to tackle cases I would have referred out before. Now I’m known as the go-to therapist for high-conflict couples.”
Dr. Jennifer Davis
PhD, Licensed Psychologist
Developed by world-renowned couples therapist Terry Real, Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is a powerful, skills-based model that gives you:
Learn how to shift stuck patterns quickly so your clients experience transformation in weeks, not years.
Tools to disarm grandiosity, leverage resistance, and create breakthroughs
Deep understanding of relational trauma and how to restore true intimacy
A proven path to shift blame, repair ruptures, and build healthy partnership dynamics
Whether you’re just starting with couples therapy or ready to become a certified expert, we have the right training for you.
Perfect for Beginners
Investment/
$497
Get started with RLT and begin transforming your couples sessions immediately
Most Comprehensive
Investment/
$5,997
(Level 1 credit applies)
Become a certified RLT practitioner with the skills and confidence to handle any couple
Whether you’re just starting with couples therapy or ready to become a certified expert, we have the right training for you.
Best For
Time Commitment
Live Sessions
Hands-On Practice
Learning Format
Direct Access to Terry Real
CE Credits
Community Access
Certification
Investment
New to RLT or couples therapy
10 hours (self-paced, ~2 weeks)
5 Q&A sessions with faculty
Self-directed application
Pre-recorded modules + live Q&A
Limited Q&A access
10 credits
Course duration only
Certificate of completion
$497
Serious practitioners seeking mastery
200 hours (6-12 months)
115 hours live with Terry Real & faculty
65 hours facilitated practice groups
Blended: Self-paced + live sessions
50 hours of live casework observation
200+ credits
Lifetime RLT community membership
Official RLT Certification
$5,997 (Level 1 credit applied)
Your introduction to the RLT method starts here. In just 10 hours of on-demand video training, you’ll learn the core framework, essential tools, and powerful interventions you can apply immediately.
2 hous
Understand the 3 phases of RLT and how it differs from traditional therapy approaches
2 hous
Learn to work with the 3 parts of the psyche in real-time during sessions
2 hous
Use the Relational Grid to quickly understand each partner’s relational stance
2 hous
Master different approaches to addressing grandiosity in your clients
2 hous
Understand and apply leverage to engage even resistant clients in the therapeutic process
Includes:
Eligible for 10 CE credits
Your introduction to the RLT method starts here. In just 10 hours of on-demand video training, you’ll learn the core framework, essential tools, and powerful interventions you can apply immediately.
30 hours | Self-Paced
Master RLT theory through 3 comprehensive levels, delivered via pre-recorded video trainings directly from Terry Real
40 hours | Self-Paced
Deep dive into essential topics: The Art of Relational Living, Working with Grandiosity, Working with Infidelity, plus your choice of electives
50 hours | Live Sessions
Observe Terry Real’s RLT couples therapy sessions in real-time, plus monthly interactive membership calls with faculty
65 hours | Live Sessions
Apply theory through small group practice facilitated by RLT Faculty, including live lectures, video analysis, and role plays
Weekly
Drop into weekly office hours with senior faculty members whenever questions arise during your training
Lifetime Membership
Join a global network of 1,500+ RLT practitioners for ongoing consultation, support, and professional development
Certification Outcomes:
Takes less than 5 minutes • No obligation to enroll