Moving On From Betrayal How To Rebuild Trust After an Affair
Join the LIVE online workshop to discover the 3 phases to healing from the deep pain of infidelity and how to use the crisis as an opportunity for growth—for yourself, your partner and your relationship.
Tuesday, November 12, 1-4pm ET
“We don’t want to simply survive the pain of infidelity… instead, can we use this crisis as an opportunity for profound transformation?”
Moving On From Betrayal How To Rebuild Trust After an Affair
Join the LIVE online workshop to discover the 3 phases to healing from the deep pain of infidelity and how to use the crisis as an opportunity for growth—for yourself, your partner and your relationship.
Tuesday, November 12, 1-4pm ET
“We don’t want to simply survive the pain of infidelity… instead, can we use this crisis as an opportunity for profound transformation?”
Moving On From Betrayal How To Rebuild Trust After an Affair
Join the LIVE online workshop to discover the 3 phases to healing from the deep pain of infidelity and how to use the crisis as an opportunity for growth—for yourself, your partner and your relationship.
Tuesday, November 12, 1-4pm ET
“We don’t want to simply survive the pain of infidelity… instead, can we use this crisis as an opportunity for profound transformation?”
Discover the 3 Phases To Navigate the Hurt of Betrayal and Move Forward – Together
In this workshop, Terry will walk you through the 3 phases to not only rebuild trust but to create a deeper, more fulfilling connection as a result.
Phase 1
Recover From Shattered Trust
- Addressing the key questions of the hurt partner:
- How could you do this to me?
- How do I know you won’t do it again?
- Creating space to grieve the old relationship.
- Piecing reality back together & making sense of what happened.
Phase 2
Uncover the meaning behind the infidelity
- Shifting from what happened to why it happened.
- Understanding what overrode the unfaithful partner’s power to say “no.”
- The difference between shame & remorse:
- Move from self-attack into genuine remorse.
Phase 3
Use the Crisis for Transformation
- Identifying any issues in the relationship that can be worked on.
- Learning critical communication skills to:
- Express hurt effectively.
- Listen non-defensively.
- Encourage the behaviors that rebuild trust.
In Crisis Lies Opportunity…
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For over 30 years, Terry Real has helped thousands of couples not only survive infidelity but use this crisis to completely transform their relationship.
Two thirds of couples weather the storm of infidelity on their own...
After an affair is revealed, your whole world is turned upside down…
Everything you thought you knew has been shattered and the thought of trusting anyone—especially your partner—again can seem impossible.
I want you to know that while the pain may be overwhelming now, it won’t always feel this way.
Infidelity is a trauma. It’s important to give yourself the time and space to grieve and begin to process what has happened. This is the first phase in moving forward…
There are 3 phases to truly restoring trust and building a more robust relationship from this crisis. In this workshop, I’ll guide you through each one, offering you a clear path to healing and a chance to come back stronger, together.
You’ll join others who’ve also experienced the extraordinary pain and confusion of betrayal, and in a supportive environment, we’ll start the process of moving on from infidelity.
It’s a long road and my hope is that this workshop will give you hope that something better can come from this painful chapter.
“Out of all the conferences and webinars I have attended, Terry provides practical information that can be used immediately. He comes across as highly experienced, however, very human and approachable.”
“His clear explanations and synthesis of all his learning and mentors’ influences are passed along with compassion and humor and invaluable professional stories, giving hope filled examples. Even more, his vulnerability in sharing the occasional personal story is powerful modeling on how to claim and discuss the adaptive child without the usual shame or excuses.”
“After completing the Skills Workshop, we went home and spent an evening relaying everything we could recall with some dear friends. To this day – two years later – they still maintain that sharing our experience with them literally saved their marriage.”
Here’s Everything You’ll Receive
3-hour LIVE workshop with Terry Real
Receive expert guidance from one of the world’s leading couples therapists on the 3 phases to not only survive infidelity but move forward with new levels of closeness and intimacy. There’ll be time for Q&A to ask Terry your questions directly in a supportive environment.
Lifetime access to the workshop recording
There’s lots to cover in these 3 hours, so you’ll have access to the workshop recording to refer back to whenever you need it.
“Terry Real’s Boot Camp was life-changing for me and my husband. We’ve been together 30+ years so it’d be fair to wonder what would we possibly have to work on. My love-avoidant, grandiose man said this shifted our relationship to a deeper, more loving level; his love-dependent, grandiose wife agrees. The Boot Camp weekend opened up new ways to talk, to see ourselves and to love each other.”
“My wife and I both found RLI’s workshop to be exceptional… I would recommend it highly, particularly to couples having communication problems. RLI’s approach is unique, but common sense, so it is easy to understand and, hopefully, to apply.”
“RLT teaches us all to stand up for relationship, to ask our partner what they need so they in turn can deliver us what will make us happy! And since it busts the hidden truths of patriarchy, it is the couples model of diversity and equality that adapts to change, as we learn to enrich the biosphere of the relationships that feed us.”
Your 100% Money-Back Guarantee
This Workshop Is for You If…
You’ve recently experienced the pain of betrayal and are struggling to regain trust.
You’ve had an affair and feel at a loss as to how to “make things right.”
You’ve experienced betrayal in previous relationships and wish to heal past wounds and learn the skills to build stronger relationships moving forward.
You’re a mental health professional who’s curious to learn how the crisis of infidelity can be used as a catalyst for profound transformation.
“I wouldn’t wish the pain of betrayal on anyone, but if you’ve been visited by this crisis, I invite you to join this workshop to explore how to use it as an opportunity for transformation—in yourself, your partner, and your relationship.”
— Terry Real
Frequently Asked Questions
When is the workshop?
This workshop is live over Zoom on Tuesday, November 12, 1-4pm ET.
What if I can’t attend live?
While it would be fantastic if you could join us live, we understand that other commitments get in the way. The workshop will be recorded and made available in the days after.
To access the recordings, you will need to log into your private learning platform, the RLT Hub. You can use your existing login details if you’ve trained with us before. If you’re new to our courses, we will email you login details as soon as you sign up for the workshop.
How do I join the workshop?
The workshop takes place over Zoom, and you will receive a confirmation email from us with your link shortly after signing up. We will also email you the link again 24 hours and 1 hour before the workshop.
How is this different from other workshops on healing from infidelity?
The guidance and skills taught in this workshop are rooted in Terry Real’s unique approach to couples therapy, Relational Life Therapy (RLT). RLT is known for sparking profound change in even the most fractured relationships and sets the bar high when coming back from infidelity. Many therapies will help you restore the old status quo—in RLT, we seek to use the crisis to address any underlying issues in the relationship or the partners to help you build a stronger relationship with new levels of emotional connection and intimacy.
What if my partner won’t join?
We encourage you to still attend the workshop if possible, as the insights will help support your own recovery. Using the skills you’ll learn can help invite a different response from your partner, allowing you to hopefully still bring positive change to the relationship.
I’m unsure or already know that I don’t want to stay with my partner. Will this workshop still be helpful for me?
Yes—while we will cover advice and guidance for couples looking to stay together, understanding how to process the hurt, rebuild trust in others, and the communication frameworks you’ll learn will support you in building fulfilling relationships in the future.
Will this workshop save my relationship?
There are no certainties, but this workshop contains the guidance and critical relational skills that can help you and your partner reconnect, rebuild trust, and move forward together.
Terry Real is a highly sought-after couples therapist with a reputation for saving couples on the brink of collapse—couples other therapists have struggled to help. The teachings in this workshop are rooted in Terry’s revolutionary approach to couples therapy, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), which has helped thousands of couples repair their relationships and enjoy a connected, fulfilling partnership.
Is this workshop suitable for mental health professionals looking for training on working with infidelity?
While this workshop is designed for couples and individuals who have experienced the betrayal of infidelity, mental health professionals may find the teachings useful to see how Relational Life Therapy approaches the topic.
Who is Terry Real?
Terry Real, LICSW, is an internationally recognized family therapist, sought-after speaker, and bestselling author, who has transformed how we approach relationships. He is the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT), a groundbreaking therapeutic approach that equips people with the essential relational skills to build and sustain authentic connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole.
The author of four books, Terry’s most recent is the New York Times bestseller, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, which guides readers toward deeper intimacy and fulfillment. Known as “the turnaround guy,” Terry is famous for his extraordinary ability to save couples on the brink of divorce. Through his esteemed training school, the Relational Life Institute, he has trained thousands of mental health practitioners in his RLT method to date.
What is your money-back guarantee?
We’re confident you’ll find this workshop helpful, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 48 hours of the live workshop (November 12, TIME). call and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.