Heal From the Pain of Betrayal and Rebuild Trust

Access this transformative workshop instantly and discover Terry Real’s trusted 3-phase framework to move past the devastation of infidelity, rebuild trust, and create a deeper, more connected relationship.

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Terry Real, couples therapist, speaker & NY Times bestselling author

“Infidelity is an act of selfishness and betrayal. Find what lit up in you in the infidelity and figure out how to bring that back home.”

Heal From the Pain of Betrayal and Rebuild Trust

Access this transformative workshop instantly and discover Terry Real’s trusted 3-phase framework to move past the devastation of infidelity, rebuild trust, and create a deeper, more connected relationship.

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Terry Real, couples therapist, speaker & NY Times bestselling author

“Infidelity is an act of selfishness and betrayal. Find what lit up in you in the infidelity and figure out how to bring that back home.”

Heal From the Pain of Betrayal and Rebuild Trust

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Access this transformative workshop instantly and discover Terry Real’s trusted 3-phase framework to move past the devastation of infidelity, rebuild trust, and create a deeper, more connected relationship.
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Terry Real, couples therapist, speaker & NY Times bestselling author

“Infidelity is an act of selfishness and betrayal. Find what lit up in you in the infidelity and figure out how to bring that back home.”

When Infidelity Destroys
Everything You Knew…

Two-thirds of couples weather the storm of infidelity on their own, but it often feels like an impossible journey. Everything you thought you knew is shattered, and the thought of trusting anyone—especially your partner—again can seem impossible.
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But here’s the truth:
While the pain may feel overwhelming now, it won’t always feel this way. Infidelity is a trauma, and healing requires time, space, and guidance to process what’s happened.

There are 3 phases to truly restoring trust and building a more robust relationship from this crisis.
In this workshop, you’ll discover how to navigate these phases and gain a clear path to healing. Whether you’re seeking to repair your relationship or rebuild yourself, this workshop will give you the tools to move forward with hope and confidence.

Take the First Step

40% of Couples End Their Relationship After Infidelity—

Infidelity is trauma that leaves deep emotional scars. Without the right tools, the pain lingers, trust feels irreparable, and the distance between partners grows wider.

But what if this crisis could become the turning point for profound transformation?

This workshop is about using the crisis of or the pain of betrayal as a catalyst for deeper intimacy, trust, and connection.

Is This Workshop for You?

This workshop is designed for:

Couples: If you’ve experienced betrayal and want to rebuild trust.

Individuals: If you’ve had an affair and feel at a loss as to how to “make things right.”

Past Relationships: If you’re healing from betrayal in previous relationships and want to move forward stronger.

Therapists: If you’re a mental health professional curious about how to guide clients through the crisis of infidelity.

“I wouldn’t wish the pain of betrayal on anyone, but if you’ve been visited by this crisis, I invite you to join this workshop to explore how to use it as an opportunity for transformation—in yourself, your partner, and your relationship.”

— Terry Real

In Crisis Lies Opportunity…

Discover how this crisis, as devastating as it is, could have the power to transform each of you and transport you into a relationship that leaves the one before you in the dust.

You’ll learn:

1

How to process the trauma of infidelity as the one who’s been hurt and make sense of what happened.

2

Critical communication skills for both partners to calm your triggered reactions and de-escalate conflict.

3

How to express genuine remorse as the unfaithful partner and open up to receive it as the hurt partner.

4

To identify any underlying issues that need to be worked on to build a more robust relationship.

5

How to encourage more of the behaviors that build trust and practices to nurture your connection.

6

Why trust is not an on/off switch, the role of reassuring behaviors, and the signs that trust is returning.

Discover the 3 Phases To Navigate the Hurt of Betrayal and Move Forward – Together

In this workshop, Terry will walk you through the 3 phases to not only rebuild trust but to create a deeper, more fulfilling connection as a result. 

Phase 1

Recover From Shattered Trust

Phase 2

Uncover the meaning behind the infidelity

Phase 3

Use the Crisis for Transformation

For over 30 years, Terry Real has helped thousands of couples not only survive infidelity but use this crisis to completely transform their relationship.

“We don’t want to simply survive the pain of infidelity… instead, can we use this crisis as an opportunity for profound transformation?”

— Sarah P., Portland, OR

“Terry Real’s Boot Camp was life-changing for me and my husband. We’ve been together 30+ years so it’d be fair to wonder what would we possibly have to work on. My love-avoidant, grandiose man said this shifted our relationship to a deeper, more loving level; his love-dependent, grandiose wife agrees. The Boot Camp weekend opened up new ways to talk, to see ourselves and to love each other.”

— A.M., Toronto

“My wife and I both found RLI’s workshop to be exceptional… I would recommend it highly, particularly to couples having communication problems. RLI’s approach is unique, but common sense, so it is easy to understand and, hopefully, to apply.”

— Jac Palmer, London, UK

“RLT teaches us all to stand up for relationship, to ask our partner what they need so they in turn can deliver us what will make us happy! And since it busts the hidden truths of patriarchy, it is the couples model of diversity and equality that adapts to change, as we learn to enrich the biosphere of the relationships that feed us.”

Here’s Everything You’ll
Receive

3-hour workshop with Terry Real

You’ll learn a powerful 3-phase framework for healing and rebuilding trust. Unlike other programs, this isn’t about simply returning to “normal”—it’s about creating a stronger, healthier relationship that leaves the old one in the dust.
Plus, you’ll gain access to an exclusive Q&A section, where Terry Real answers real-life questions from participants just like you.
Hear real stories, relatable experiences, and expert advice that could reflect exactly what you’re going through.
Whether you’re struggling to process the pain, rebuild trust, or move forward with clarity, this workshop will give you the guidance you need—every step of the way.

Total Value: $597

Watch The Betrayal Workshop Today For Only $47

What People Say About the Betrayal Workshop

"I felt validated in the first as the betrayed spouse. I gained understanding and some empathy in the second part and some validation for what I have been asking for. Honestly, I was hoping for more in the third part than what was offered in moving forward. It was so powerful that my husband has agreed to couples counseling with an RLT certified therapist."
Mikael Rich

Bonuses Included When You Join Today

Bonus #1: The Hurt Partner’s Guide to Healing (Worth $149)

This guide offers practical steps to navigate the pain of betrayal and rebuild trust, covering the phases of Crisis, Digestion, and Transformation. It’s designed to help you stabilize yourself, process what happened, and heal deeply, whether for your relationship or personal growth.

Bonus #2: The Involved Partner’s Guide to Accountability (Worth $149)

This guide provides a clear path for the involved partner to take accountability and support their partner’s healing. It includes actionable steps for rebuilding trust through transparency, empathy, and long-term relational growth.

Bonus #3: Exclusive Q&A Recording with Real-Life Examples (Worth $100)

Listen to Terry’s answers to real-life questions from participants like you in an exclusive Q&A recording. Gain insights and strategies tailored to common challenges that may resonate with your situation.

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What You Get When You Enroll Today

  • Life-time access to the Betrayal Workshop (Worth $199)
  • Bonus #1: The Hurt Partner’s Guide to Healing (Worth $149)
  • Bonus #2: The Involved Partner’s Guide to Accountability (Worth $149)
  • Bonus #3: Exclusive Q&A Recording with Real-Life Examples (Worth $100)
  • 14-Day Unconditional Money Back Guarantee

Total Value: $597

Watch The Betrayal Workshop
Today For Only $47

What You Get When You Enroll Today

  • Life-time access to the Betrayal Workshop (Worth $199)
  • Bonus #1: The Hurt Partner’s Guide to Healing (Worth $149)
  • Bonus #2: The Involved Partner’s Guide to Accountability (Worth $149)
  • Bonus #3: Exclusive Q&A Recording with Real-Life Examples (Worth $100)
  • 14-Day Unconditional Money Back Guarantee

Total Value: $597

Watch The Betrayal Workshop
Today For Only $47

What People Say About the Product

"I am 8 months down the line from discovering my partner's 2 year affair and 3 months down from knowing the full truth. We've both been doing a lot of inner work via therapy and 12 step programs during this time as well as having completed US online with you. We watched the workshop together and realized how far we've come, how much closer we are and honestly we are being with each other whilst also acknowledging how painful this journey has been. We are growing. I'm so grateful for your work, it really speaks to us and has helped us navigate the unimaginable."
Amy Kian

Frequently Asked Questions

What happens after I sign up?

As soon as you register, you’ll get instant access to the workshop. You’ll also receive lifetime access to revisit the material whenever you need it.

This workshop is based on Terry Real’s revolutionary Relational Life Therapy (RLT) approach. Unlike traditional therapies that aim to restore the old status quo, RLT helps couples transform their relationships by addressing the root causes of betrayal and building a stronger, deeper connection.

Absolutely. Even if your partner isn’t ready, the insights and skills you’ll gain can support your own healing and may inspire a shift in your relationship dynamic. Many participants have found significant breakthroughs even on their own.

This workshop isn’t just about staying together—it’s about clarity and growth. Whether you decide to repair your relationship or move forward independently, the tools you’ll learn will support your healing and help you create fulfilling relationships in the future.

While no program can guarantee results, this workshop offers practical tools and strategies to help you and your partner rebuild trust, improve communication, and deepen your connection. Many couples who thought their relationship was beyond repair have found hope and healing here.

Yes! If you’re a therapist looking to expand your skillset, this workshop provides valuable insights into Terry Real’s RLT methodology for working with couples in crisis.

Terry Real, LICSW, is a globally renowned family therapist, bestselling author, and the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). He has helped thousands of couples turn their relationships around and trained mental health professionals worldwide in his transformative methods.

We’re confident this workshop will make a difference. If you’re not completely satisfied, simply email us within 14 days of purchase, and we’ll issue a full refund—no questions asked.

What You Get When You Enroll Today

  • Life-time access to the Betrayal Workshop (Worth $199)
  • Bonus #1: The Hurt Partner’s Guide to Healing (Worth $149)
  • Bonus #2: The Involved Partner’s Guide to Accountability (Worth $149)
  • Bonus #3: Exclusive Q&A Recording with Real-Life Examples (Worth $100)
  • 14-Day Unconditional Money Back Guarantee

Total Value: $597

Watch The Betrayal Workshop
Today For Only $47

What You Get When You Enroll Today

  • Life-time access to the Betrayal Workshop (Worth $199)
  • Bonus #1: The Hurt Partner’s Guide to Healing (Worth $149)
  • Bonus #2: The Involved Partner’s Guide to Accountability (Worth $149)
  • Bonus #3: Exclusive Q&A Recording with Real-Life Examples (Worth $100)
  • 14-Day Unconditional Money Back Guarantee

Total Value: $597

Watch The Betrayal Workshop
Today For Only $47

CE REQUIREMENTS:

The Relational Life Institute is pleased to offer:

The RLT Level 1 Training Course

Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs. 

FORMAT: Five LIVE Online Sessions on Zoom, facilitated by Kate Harris, Phd; plus teaching by Terry Real, LICSW; Cathy Hill, PhD; and Anna Sterk, LMFT

Continuing Ed credits offered:  10 credit hours for 5 Classes

At the completion of this course, all participants will be invited by email to purchase the 10 CE credits for a $40 fee. To receive a certificate, you must attend the full course. There is no partial credit, attendance will be taken.

Content:

Over five live classes you’ll be introduced to the powerful principals behind Relational Life Therapy (RLT). RLT Level 1 is designed to give you an in-depth introduction to the theory and practice of the RLT model. 

Discover the differences between RLT and traditional psychodynamic therapy. Also considered are the stances of “one-down shame” and “one-up grandiosity” in couples; according to RLT, true intimacy can only happen when partners are “same-as” with each other. RLT is about action and swift results, helping people to make major changes to the negative parts of their character, and the critical role and stance of the therapist is described. Presented also are the concepts of Relational Mindfulness, Joining Through the Truth, and psychological patriarchy.

RLT Level 1 is the first step toward RLT certification and will prepare you for the Level 2 & 3 trainings.

Learning Objectives: At the completion of this course, participants can expect to:

  1. Compare the RLT phases and how RLT differs from traditional therapy
  2. Describe the role and approach of the therapists in RLT
  3. List the seven lenses
  4. Explain the role of data gathering

  

Throughout the course, you’ll learn: 

    • True intimacy can only happen when partners are “same as”—neither one-up nor one-down
    • That RLT Therapists and Coaches will confront and teach their clients how to actually live relationally
    • How to use the RLT Lenses in Intervention & Finding Leverage
    • How RLT Therapists and Coaches use judicious self-disclosure, sharing stories of they use these same skills in their own relationships.

Target Audience: Social Workers, MFTs, Counselors, Substance Abuse Counselors, Nurses, and LMHCs, LMFT’s, Educators, Chemical Dependency Counselors 

Course Content Level: The course content is appropriate for Beginner level clinicians.

Cost: $497 in full; or 3 payments of $179 each

Course Dates & Hours: 

January 14, 21, 28; February 17, 11, 2025

Hours: 12pm to 2pm Eastern Time each class

Cancelation Policy: You may request a refund up to 2 days after the first live session.

Please contact support@terryreal.com if you wish to cancel your purchase.

If you need special accommodations or have questions, please contact us.

Registering for the course on the RLI website for is required to receive a Continuing Ed Certificate.

FAQ’s

How do I receive the Zoom link?

The Zoom link is emailed to you from ZOOM when you register for the course. If you do not receive the link, please contact us at support@terryreal.com

Should the name you register with match your Zoom name?

Yes, your first and last both names must be entered on your registration and then displayed on the screen during all classes. Please do not use nicknames, or employee ID numbers or log into Zoom using a co-worker or family member’s Zoom Account as this will post you as ABSENT.

When will I get my certificate?

Certificates will be available within ten business days of the event. Certificates will be emailed to the email address you used to register for the course.

Please contact our Support team if you have any questions support@terryreal.com

Instructor’s Bios:

Terry Real, LICSW: Terry Real is the bestselling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, the straight-talking How Can I Get Through to You? Reconnecting Men and Women, The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Make Love Work and most recently Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship just debuted in June 2022.

He founded the Relational Life Institute, offering workshops for couples, individuals, and parents as well as a professional training program for clinicians.   Terry’s work, with its rigorous commonsense approach, speaks to both men and women. A proponent of “full-throttle marriage,” Terry has been called “the most innovative voice in thinking about and treating men and their relationships in the world today.”

Kate Harris, PhD: Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Kate is a Clinical Psychologit and a certified Martha Bec, North Star Coach. In 2015, Kate watched Terry Real work live with 5 couples and was instantly committed to becoming an RLT therapist. Kate believes that RLT honors “the worth and dignity of all people” and it aligns clearly with her own personal values. After attending a Relationship Bootcamp workshop, she and her husband learned first hand the tools Terry reaches and they continue to use them today to deepen their 32 year relationship. Kate became RLT Certified in 2018 and is a valued teacher.

Anna Sterk, LMFT

Anna began training in RLT with Terry Real in 2012 and has been providing therapy, Essential Skills Bootcamps, consultation and supervision through the RLT model for years; Anna was thrilled to have the opportunity to teach and train practitioners as faculty with the Relational Life Institute (RLI) beginning in 2022.  Anna’s style as a therapist, teacher, and supervisor is to balance compassion and collaboration with direct feedback. Anna’s roots are in systems theory and cultural studies, which was a natural fit for the RLT model, and supports her goal of teaching the skills to navigate long term relationships and support relational living for both clients and students alike. As RLI Faculty, Anna teaches the Practicum courses and Small Group Mentoring for RLT certification students, along with special topic courses.

Cathy Hill, Ph.D., R. Psych:

Cathy Hill began training in RLT in 2010 after attending her first Relationship Bootcamp and from that experience was determined that Terry needed to teach others to do RLT. Cathy persisted in this idea and Terry ended up having Cathy set up adanced training for his senior therapists which was very well received. Soon after she was named Director of Training for RLI. Cathy is trained in the ‘scientist-practitioner’ model, and is devoted to getting RLT ‘evidence-based’ which requires excellent in training in order to translate into excellence in practice.

CONFLICT of Interest: There is no known conflict of interest or commercial support for this event.

Grievance Procedure:

If a student believes they have been discriminated against, they can submit a written

complaint that includes their name, address, phone number, location, date, and a

detailed description of the issue. If a student with a disability disagrees with the

accommodation provided or has any other grievances, they can schedule a meeting to

discuss and attempt to find a solution together. If the student is still not satisfied with the

accommodation after further discussion, they can contact the Operations Director for

the Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan, via phone, email, or mail. If the

grievance cannot be resolved, the complainant will be advised to contact the

appropriate Ethics Committee or Licensing Board. The Operations Director will keep all

grievances and their resolutions confidential in locked files. A copy of this Grievance

Procedure is available upon request.

Contact information: ACEP Administrator & Operations Director for Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan follows: 291 Nahanton Street, Newton, MA 02459; 617-861-3030 lisa@relationallife.com