Discover the challenges men are facing right now that are causing problems in their relationships, careers, and even health – and the roadmap to help them find their way into connection and relationality.
This workshop will challenge some of your beliefs about being a good man – but not to tear you down. To help you build something better.
The truth is: they’re confused.
Women, children, workplaces, communities have raised their expectations of men. We’re looking for men who can be strong when the moment calls for it and sweet when the moment calls for it.
But the problem is that no one showed our men how to do that. Here’s the bottom line:
In the West, we were raised under patriarchy. And under patriarchy, boys (whether they’re aware of it or not) were taught to be invulnerable – to deny half of their own humanity.
We learned to hide our feelings. Swallow our needs. Stay stoic, tough, and logical.
No feelings. No weakness. Invulnerable.
But that is a recipe for loneliness. For failed relationships. For health issues.
And now with the call for men to become more in touch with their feelings, many of them just don’t know what’s expected of them.
Which leaves many men wondering:
Discover the answer – and the roadmap to help men realize it – in this live workshop led by renowned therapist and expert in men’s issues, Terry Real.
1 in 4 young men under 35 report chronic loneliness. The highest rate among any group.
— Gallup, 2024
69% of divorces are initiated by women.
— American Sociological Association, 2015
Men report greater emotional devastation after divorce, leading to higher rates of depression, suicide, and addiction post-separation than women.
— Journal of Men’s Health, 2021
Emotional suppression is one of the strongest predictors of male depression and suicide.
— International Review of Social Psychology, 2020
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– Q&A is included where you can ask questions.
Many men don’t show the outward sadness and grief we often associate with depression. More often you will see:
As mental health professionals, we’re uniquely placed to help men pen their hearts, reconnect to their feelings, and enjoy greater fulfillment… to be whole.
You’ll leave with a deeper understanding of the challenges men are experiencing beneath the surface – and the roadmap that will help them become strong, brilliant, big-hearted, loving, relational men.
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“ Men's willingness to downplay weakness and pain is so great that it has been named as a factor in their shorter life span. The ten years of difference in longevity between men and women turns out to have little to do with genes. Men wait longer to acknowledge that they are sick, take longer to get help, and once they get treatment do not comply with it as well as women do. ”
― Terry Real, I Don't Want to Talk About It
In this workshop Terry will be speaking directly to the men who need his help. However, the insights and roadmap he will share are valuable for mental health professionals working with men. You’ll gain a deeper understanding of men’s issues and how they reveal themselves in their relationships.
Now more than ever, the world is in need of those who can guide men on a new path toward the loving, fulfilling, and healthy relational life that they want to live.
Over 3 hours, Terry will share the roadmap to help navigate the difficulties facing men in our current culture.There will be space for Q&A if you wish to ask Terry a question on the content or advice on your specific challenges.
Known for his straight-talking, no-nonsense style, Terry uses warmth, humor, and compassion to ensure everyone feels safe and supported. Expect deep, no-holds-barred communication and perhaps for some of your long-held beliefs around masculinity to be challenged, all in an immensely non-judgemental environment.
A family therapist and expert in men’s issues, Terry Real is
the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT), a groundbreaking therapeutic approach that equips people with the essential relational skills to build and sustain authentic connections – to themselves, each other, and the planet.
The bestselling author of four books, Terry wrote the first ever book on male depression – I Don’t Want To Talk About It – in the 1990s. Terry’s most recent book is the New York Times bestseller, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, which guides readers toward deeper intimacy and fulfillment.
Known as “the turnaround guy,” Terry is famous for his extraordinary ability to save couples on the brink of divorce. Through his esteemed training school, the Relational Life Institute, he has trained thousands of mental health practitioners in his RLT method to date.
Terry is committed to relational empowerment, helping everyone develop the skills needed for meaningful, lasting relationships.
My husband watched with me. We did a self-study using Terry's book, Us, and this workshop was a nice refresher for us in our work toward taking timeouts when we react emotionally to each other and our attempts to reparent the Adaptive Child (or her Protector*) and let our Wise Adults reconnect. It takes practice. My husband's Adaptive Child is very angry because he expects his family to be perfect. So when I react emotionally, that sets off his anger, which triggers mine to react more and we're off to the races. ”
– Cynthia (on Terry’s Unstuck workshop)
“ Thank you for introducing me to the real Laurence , and for introducing him to himself. I am happier in our relationship than I have been in many many years. I use the strategies you taught us with Laurence as well as with my siblings and friends. They work! If we never found someone willing to be straight and honest we would not be together, that much I know. Your honesty about Laurence allowed me to stand down. Now that I am able to stand down I am able to try to be the person I want to be in this relationship. ”
— Daniella S
“ After spending 100s of thousands of dollars and countless hours and years in intensive therapy…our relationship was deteriorating and we still had no conclusive diagnoses of what was getting in the way of our relationship and of true intimacy…Terry Real who with laser-sharp focus immediately zeroed in on exactly what was going on and gave us a diagnosis for what was getting in our way. Sitting in his office was the first time EVER, I felt completely understood and validated!!! ”
— C.M.
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We’re confident you’ll find this workshop helpful, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 48 hours of the live workshop (on Tuesday, August 12 at 12 pm ET) and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.
The live workshop takes place on Tuesday, August 12, from 12–3pm ET.
If you can’t join us live, we recommend still registering as you receive lifetime access to the recording.
The workshop will take place over Zoom. As soon as you sign up, you’ll receive a confirmation email from us with your Zoom link to join on the day. We’ll also send you reminder emails in the days before, as well as one hour prior to the workshop. These will all contain your Zoom link.
You can still sign up! You receive lifetime access to the recording. This will be stored in your private learning platform (if you’re new to our courses, you will receive login details via email as soon as you sign up).
No – this is about men becoming whole. If we constrict ourselves to the traditional masculine ideal, we deny half of our humanity. And if we swing too far in the other direction, only vulnerable, only sensitive, we also deny half of ourselves. Just as women have learned to assert themselves with love, men can learn to open their hearts with strength, both becoming whole. Terry wants men to step up and meet the new demands for relationality, collaboration, and connection. This work is about creating strong, capable, sensitive, relational, whole men, women, and non-binary folk.
No – Terry will be speaking mainly to the men who need to hear this. However, the insights and roadmap he will share will help you deepen your understanding of men’s issues and how this can show up in their behaviors and relationships.
Yes – we invite you to share this workshop with anyone you think could benefit, from your clients to the men close to you.
Yes – this workshop is for anyone curious about the current state of masculinity. Women and non-binary folk are welcome, too. It affects us all. In this workshop, you’ll discover what’s really going on under the surface for men today – and the roadmap to help them out of crisis and into connection.
As this is open to the general public, there are no CE credits available for this workshop.
We’re confident you’ll find this workshop helpful, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 48 hours of the live workshop (on Tuesday, August 12 at 12 pm ET) and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.
Please contact us at support@terryreal.com.