Watch the 3-hour workshop and discover Terry Real’s 3 powerful steps to uncover the hidden patterns keeping you stuck, and the skills you need to break free and finally get the love, connection, and understanding you’ve been asking for.
Watch the workshop and discover Terry Real’s 3 powerful steps to uncover the hidden patterns keeping you stuck, and the skills you need to break free and finally get the love, connection, and understanding you’ve been asking for.
Watch the workshop and discover Terry Real’s 3 powerful steps to uncover the hidden patterns keeping you stuck, and the skills you need to break free and finally get the love, connection, and understanding you’ve been asking for.
Are you exhausted from having the same old fight? Sick of asking for the same thing again and again? Maybe things improve for a little while, but before you know it, you’re right back where you started — trapped in the same destructive cycle.
Despite your best efforts, nothing really changes.
Most of us were never taught how to navigate relationships in a way that actually works. The tools we were given — if we were given any at all — are often outdated or ineffective. So when frustration builds and minor disagreements turn into major blowouts or, worse, cold silence, we’re left stuck in patterns we don’t know how to break.
In this workshop, you’ll discover the 3 powerful steps to break free from destructive cycles keeping you stuck, finally get what you’ve been asking for, and transform your relationship for good. Whether you’re seeking the tools to improve your current relationship or experience healthier love in the future, this workshop will help you develop the skills to stop repeating the past for real, lasting change.
Becoming stuck in the endless repetition of conflict and unmet needs feels frustrating and hopeless. Without the right skills, these patterns persist, fueling disconnection and eating up all the love in the relationship.
But this pattern can be interrupted, and lasting transformation is possible.
This workshop will give you the tools to build relationships grounded in connection, vulnerability, and lasting intimacy.
Couples: If you’re stuck in the same fights and destructive patterns and want to work together to rebuild your intimacy and connection.
Individuals: If you keep falling into painful relationship dynamics, struggling with self-sabotage, and want a healthier connection with yourself and others.
Past Relationships: If you’re tried of repeating the same mistakes and want to break the pattern
of failed relationships, heal and build the skills for future love.
Therapists: If you’re a mental health professional wanting to guide clients through cyclical relational challenges.
No matter where your relationship is today, learning to understand, work with, and improve each other’s relational stances can shift everything
— creating a love stronger than ever before.
You’ll learn how to:
End the exhausting cycle of conflict and finally feel deeply heard, understood, and appreciated.
Develop the confidence to build healthy boundaries that keep you protected and connected in love.
Stop painful past wounds from running your relationship and receive the healing love you deserve.
Communicate effectively to get your needs met while bringing you closer rather than pushing each other away.
Stop fighting to keep your relationship alive, and create the vulnerability and intimacy for lasting love.
In this workshop, Terry will guide you through a transformational experience to understand what’s keeping you stuck, end dysfunctional cycles, and finally get what you’ve been asking for
— without falling back into the same frustrating fights.
“A good relationship is not one in which the raw parts of ourselves are avoided. A good relationship is one in which they are handled. And a great relationship is one in which they are healed.”
— Lyn and David L.
“After completing the Skills Workshop, we went home and spent an evening relaying everything we could recall with some dear friends. To this day – two years later – they still maintain that sharing our experience with them literally saved their marriage.”
“My wife and I both found RLI’s workshop to be exceptional… I would recommend it highly, particularly to couples having communication problems. RLI’s approach is unique, but common sense, so it is easy to understand and, hopefully, to apply.”
— Tod, Boston, MA
“. . .the couples work that you do is so valuable — we are relating now in a wholly new and expansive way. It’s what each of us knew we were missing but could not have found on our own. Thank you so much!”
Discover 3 powerful steps to break free from dysfunctional patterns and strengthen your relationships. Unlike most programs that focus only on communication techniques, this workshop helps you uncover the subconscious patterns keeping you stuck in frustration, resentment, and emotional distance for real, lasting change.
Watch The Unstuck Workshop For Only $47
The assessment reveals the health of your boundaries and self-esteem so you can break free from self-defeating patterns of behavior — especially during conflict. Your results will allow you to map out the appropriate skills needed to create a healthier dynamic for a more loving, joyful, and connected relationship.
This guide provides practical tips and exercises that will empower you to appreciate, cherish, and communicate better with your partner. Unlock the secrets to a thriving relationship and experience the abundance of love you deserve.
We’re confident you’ll find this workshop helpful, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com 48 hours of the purchasing workshop. We’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.
Watch The Unstuck Workshop
Today For Only $47
Watch The Unstuck Workshop
Today For Only $47
This workshop is based on Terry Real’s revolutionary Relational Life Therapy (RLT) approach. Unlike traditional therapies that aim to restore the old status quo, RLT helps couples transform their relationships by addressing the root causes of conflict and dysfunctional behavior to build a stronger, deeper connection.
No. This workshop is for anyone looking to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Whether you’re feeling disconnected in your current relationship, a couple wanting to strengthen your bond, or an individual ready to break unhealthy past cycles and heal, this workshop will give you the tools to transform the way you relate and connect.
Absolutely. Even if your partner isn’t ready, the insights and skills you’ll gain can support your own healing and inspire a shift in your relationship dynamic. Many participants have found significant breakthroughs even on their own.
While no program can guarantee results, this workshop offers practical tools and strategies to help you and your partner break free from conflict, get your needs met, and deepen your intimacy and connection. Many couples who thought their relationship was beyond repair have found healing, growth, and transformation through this work.
Terry Real, LICSW, is a globally renowned family therapist, bestselling author, and the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). He has helped thousands of couples turn their relationships around and trained mental health professionals worldwide in his transformative methods.
We’re confident this workshop will make a difference. If you’re not completely satisfied, simply email us within 48 hours of the live workshop, and we’ll issue a full refund—no questions asked.
Watch The Unstuck Workshop
Today For Only $47
Watch The Unstuck Workshop
Today For Only $47
The Relational Life Institute is pleased to offer:
The RLT Level 1 Training Course
Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.
FORMAT: Five LIVE Online Sessions on Zoom, facilitated by Kate Harris, Phd; plus teaching by Terry Real, LICSW; Cathy Hill, PhD; and Anna Sterk, LMFT
Continuing Ed credits offered: 10 credit hours for 5 Classes
At the completion of this course, all participants will be invited by email to purchase the 10 CE credits for a $40 fee. To receive a certificate, you must attend the full course. There is no partial credit, attendance will be taken.
Content:
Over five live classes you’ll be introduced to the powerful principals behind Relational Life Therapy (RLT). RLT Level 1 is designed to give you an in-depth introduction to the theory and practice of the RLT model.
Discover the differences between RLT and traditional psychodynamic therapy. Also considered are the stances of “one-down shame” and “one-up grandiosity” in couples; according to RLT, true intimacy can only happen when partners are “same-as” with each other. RLT is about action and swift results, helping people to make major changes to the negative parts of their character, and the critical role and stance of the therapist is described. Presented also are the concepts of Relational Mindfulness, Joining Through the Truth, and psychological patriarchy.
RLT Level 1 is the first step toward RLT certification and will prepare you for the Level 2 & 3 trainings.
Learning Objectives: At the completion of this course, participants can expect to:
Throughout the course, you’ll learn:
Target Audience: Social Workers, MFTs, Counselors, Substance Abuse Counselors, Nurses, and LMHCs, LMFT’s, Educators, Chemical Dependency Counselors
Course Content Level: The course content is appropriate for Beginner level clinicians.
Cost: $497 in full; or 3 payments of $179 each
Course Dates & Hours:
January 14, 21, 28; February 17, 11, 2025
Hours: 12pm to 2pm Eastern Time each class
Cancelation Policy: You may request a refund up to 2 days after the first live session.
Please contact support@terryreal.com if you wish to cancel your purchase.
If you need special accommodations or have questions, please contact us.
Registering for the course on the RLI website for is required to receive a Continuing Ed Certificate.
FAQ’s
How do I receive the Zoom link?
The Zoom link is emailed to you from ZOOM when you register for the course. If you do not receive the link, please contact us at support@terryreal.com
Should the name you register with match your Zoom name?
Yes, your first and last both names must be entered on your registration and then displayed on the screen during all classes. Please do not use nicknames, or employee ID numbers or log into Zoom using a co-worker or family member’s Zoom Account as this will post you as ABSENT.
When will I get my certificate?
Certificates will be available within ten business days of the event. Certificates will be emailed to the email address you used to register for the course.
Please contact our Support team if you have any questions support@terryreal.com
Instructor’s Bios:
Terry Real, LICSW: Terry Real is the bestselling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, the straight-talking How Can I Get Through to You? Reconnecting Men and Women, The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Make Love Work and most recently Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship just debuted in June 2022.
He founded the Relational Life Institute, offering workshops for couples, individuals, and parents as well as a professional training program for clinicians. Terry’s work, with its rigorous commonsense approach, speaks to both men and women. A proponent of “full-throttle marriage,” Terry has been called “the most innovative voice in thinking about and treating men and their relationships in the world today.”
Kate Harris, PhD: Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Kate is a Clinical Psychologit and a certified Martha Bec, North Star Coach. In 2015, Kate watched Terry Real work live with 5 couples and was instantly committed to becoming an RLT therapist. Kate believes that RLT honors “the worth and dignity of all people” and it aligns clearly with her own personal values. After attending a Relationship Bootcamp workshop, she and her husband learned first hand the tools Terry reaches and they continue to use them today to deepen their 32 year relationship. Kate became RLT Certified in 2018 and is a valued teacher.
Anna Sterk, LMFT
Anna began training in RLT with Terry Real in 2012 and has been providing therapy, Essential Skills Bootcamps, consultation and supervision through the RLT model for years; Anna was thrilled to have the opportunity to teach and train practitioners as faculty with the Relational Life Institute (RLI) beginning in 2022. Anna’s style as a therapist, teacher, and supervisor is to balance compassion and collaboration with direct feedback. Anna’s roots are in systems theory and cultural studies, which was a natural fit for the RLT model, and supports her goal of teaching the skills to navigate long term relationships and support relational living for both clients and students alike. As RLI Faculty, Anna teaches the Practicum courses and Small Group Mentoring for RLT certification students, along with special topic courses.
Cathy Hill, Ph.D., R. Psych:
Cathy Hill began training in RLT in 2010 after attending her first Relationship Bootcamp and from that experience was determined that Terry needed to teach others to do RLT. Cathy persisted in this idea and Terry ended up having Cathy set up adanced training for his senior therapists which was very well received. Soon after she was named Director of Training for RLI. Cathy is trained in the ‘scientist-practitioner’ model, and is devoted to getting RLT ‘evidence-based’ which requires excellent in training in order to translate into excellence in practice.
CONFLICT of Interest: There is no known conflict of interest or commercial support for this event.
Grievance Procedure:
If a student believes they have been discriminated against, they can submit a written
complaint that includes their name, address, phone number, location, date, and a
detailed description of the issue. If a student with a disability disagrees with the
accommodation provided or has any other grievances, they can schedule a meeting to
discuss and attempt to find a solution together. If the student is still not satisfied with the
accommodation after further discussion, they can contact the Operations Director for
the Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan, via phone, email, or mail. If the
grievance cannot be resolved, the complainant will be advised to contact the
appropriate Ethics Committee or Licensing Board. The Operations Director will keep all
grievances and their resolutions confidential in locked files. A copy of this Grievance
Procedure is available upon request.
Contact information: ACEP Administrator & Operations Director for Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan follows: 291 Nahanton Street, Newton, MA 02459; 617-861-3030 lisa@relationallife.com